Judy and Donna own a condo they have lived in for almost 20 years. Says Judy, “By buying together and moving in at the same time, it is all fair. No one has a foot over the other. We have mutual respect and a 50/50 arrangement.” They were already housemates when they made the decision to […]
Read More...How Would You Ask for a Change?
Two housemates, Louise and Karen, are sitting on their balcony in Florida in early December. Louise wants to make a change. Here are two ways she could say it. “Let’s hang white lights.” Or “I’d like to have white lights on the patio. It’d be pretty, give us some light, and is in keeping with […]
Read More...Family Mode Sharing Together
“Family mode” is what Sandy calls what happens when you live with someone for a while. She lives with three housemates in an apartment in downtown Brattleboro. She says, “I’ve been co-housing all my life. In my early twenties I had an open marriage. We lived with people we loved. My parents had an open […]
Read More...Downsizing by Buying a House Together
Downsizing is one way to age in place. But it doesn’t always mean leaving a multi-bedroom house to move into a one-room studio. Judy and her husband bought a house with Joyce and her husband as a way for both couples to downsize. Each couple had raised families in large country homes with big gardens […]
Read More...How Kara Selects Housemates She Loves
“I wouldn’t live any other way!” says Kara. She’s had different housemates over the last ten years. “I always want to have a housemate. I enjoy it and it’s such an easy way to supplement my income. I always make sure I have enough space for another person.” Benefits She likes the companionship — being […]
Read More...Can You Spot the Mistake Kathy Made?
Here is a story about a mistake Kathy made. She had a disaster of a housemate. It is what many people are afraid of when they think about sharing housing. Read it and see if you can spot how and when Kathy stumbled in selecting this person to be a housemate. Kathy says, “When I was […]
Read More...Unexpectedly Gaining a Deep Friendship
“The best part is the deep friendship we’ve created,” says Wendi Burkhardt, CEO of Silvernest. As part of developing the Silvernest business, Wendi was invited to work in San Francisco for four months. Since she lives in Boulder, Colorado, she needed a place to live. But as she says, “San Francisco is brutally expensive and […]
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